Saturday, 5 November 2011

吾乃北钟第二十一届毕业生



毕业歌响起,人家过往的一幕幕出现眼前,也哭得一把眼泪一把鼻涕 (我讲的就是传说中的AhJing),我却不知是该哭还是该笑,坐我前面一排的有人好像很想要哭,死都要哭,却哭不出。他一直哽咽,哽到脸都涨红了,终于有点泪。算是他成功了吧?我不是很想笑他,只是放过我别那么随波逐流好不好,没泪没关系,本笑爷是笑着进去,笑着出来的。

但,笑着出来之后却再也笑不出了。原来,最难的,是自己弄自己笑。

毕业典礼,许多人都在谈论着,发表他们的感言,相信你也看到显了。抱歉,我实在没有如乔布斯那样激动人心的三个故事。

但是,我的这一天,绝对与众不同。我其实真的没什么感触,搬了那么多次家,换了那么多所学校,今天流着泪说再见,明天嘴笑着说哈咯。

最有感觉的离别是form2吧。和他们那种单纯义气热情简单浓厚真诚正直的友谊说byebye还真难。他们百般留我,到现在知道我所面对的一切后还再怪当初是我要离开。我笑着说我不后悔。 对,绝不后悔。我这里的朋友是我用真诚的心交回来的,把敌人化为朋友。我知道你们很多当初都讨厌我,不爽我。现在没有了,可能还有,我都要谢谢你们,感谢你们对我无厘头的包容,如果因为我的大头在上课时挡到你而让你成绩退步,真的不好意思。当让,当时谁会笑着离开自己的女朋友?XD



媛芬说我像愤怒鸟,就当你的愤怒鸟一辈子吧。柔仪说公鸡头,就公鸡头吧。宝国说神山,就神山吧。

话说回来,我没哭没动容,你会觉得我pattern。

对我来说,朋友真的是一生一起走,友谊不是在毕业就画上休止符的。这样,我还有什么好哭得呢,我不为友谊哀悼。人生过去有那么多的回忆,你可以现在回味你昨天干了什么,上一秒在做什么。你也可以计划你明天要干什么, 下一秒要做什么。你看见了吗?昨天其实和明天一样遥远,仰望明天和回忆昨天没什么差别,就差在观念的不同和人生态度。

回首昨天不如仰望明天,仰望明天不如把握今天!!

世上有三件事 - 自己的事,别人的事和老天的事。现在的人如此烦如此忙就是因为他们不管自己的事,管太多别人的事,担心着老天的事。



好了,说真的毕业典礼我都在想将来我会变成怎样。十年后?二十年后?三十年后?我会不会像坐在台上的大哥大姐先生小姐们的成功?有颜回校见校长,有脸回家见家长?

11111这个日子我暂时不会忘记。

这天的有个时段我很下(down),可能是玩疯了(对,肯定是玩癫了),我不知道自己在难过什么。我真的不知道。你们认为的理由绝对不是我难过的理由。你们的理由听起来很合理,但我由衷地说那不是。

原来我是难受。哈!这种感觉,我领悟了什么是五味杂成。

难过、难忘,傻傻分不清楚。

原来原来,我是个无赖
秉着自以为是的无赖正义让你受苦了
想逞英雄,却成了痞子
当不成痞子,变成了傻子

我真的很特别,别人在礼堂伤心的时候,我笑。别人在快乐的时候,我悲愤的情绪涌上心头。

但是,我会很快很快地复原,就像那张照片般跳跃。纵然跌倒,屹立不倒。


 看着这张照片,原来梦想在远方。

突然觉得婉婷不是我想象中的可怕,了解了她才知道她的可爱。她会让你开心起来,虽然不时对我翻白眼,如果你认为翻我白眼会让你开心的话,就继续翻吧。XD


 朋友,我和你很像,各个方面都是。我刚来的时候就认定你会和我成为很好很好的朋友。几经波折,我们的友谊更真实。

虽然你嘴里时常酸我,你对我的话也很假意,我深知在我人生的低谷会遇见你。
你!!!!!

死都不要拍我!!

跳啦!跳啦!摔跤就笑你!

你和捏你(NERI),这里岂能容得下我想对你们说的?XD

谢谢你的美好,谢谢那天你帮我做的事。最信任的是你们。你不用担心,我不是容易受欺负的。

不用道歉,你没对不起我什么。不用谢了,我是甘心乐意地帮你的。我的心意,你心领了。那就够了。真的足够了。

人生就是不停地战斗

我还在战斗着。

(此文非比寻‘长’,请大家慢慢看,快考试了我不知道几十会再Blog。预祝大家旗开得胜,马到功成!)

STAY HUNGRY! STAY FOOLISH!

求知若渴!虚心若愚!

Monday, 31 October 2011

妈,对不起,我爱你。

从来不知道妈有多爱我,或许说,就算知道了大脑也无法对其进行分析。

从来不知道自己有多幼稚,17岁的人有着7岁的样,一副天真却再也不烂漫的样子。

更可悲的是,从来不知道自己有多任性,还以为任性只会在女孩身上找到。

从来不曾要求你的准许,我从哪里来,要往哪儿去,开口说说,只是通报你;先斩后奏,惯用伎俩。

从来不曾为身为母亲的你设想,把你半夜等我归来的影子当成月光照不见的地方,自私地把与朋友种种玩乐的回忆贪婪地带入梦乡。

你每日黄昏回家,轻轻推开房门,我背对着你,你总是伸手拥抱我,给我一个吻,有时我却显得不耐烦。我给你的拥抱,是双手轻轻拍在你的肩膀;我给你的吻,是手指轻轻碰你的脸颊再加上音响效果,为了更逼真还会沾点水。

天下的妈妈都爱自己所有的孩子,你也是。但我却深刻地体会到你最爱的是我。你陪我玩捉迷藏,当然也少不了向我吐心事。你说我懂事,却忘了再懂事我还只是个淘气的孩子。

咋看我们似乎感情很好。

我也觉得我很爱你。

但,就如我让许多对我有期望的朋友失望一样,我一次次地让你失望透顶,一次次地把你的心砸碎,拼起来,再砸碎。对你的教育政策非常不满,忘了你也是人,也忘了你都是为我好。

从来,我认为给你认识了不久,来来去去二三十年,给以驾驭于你。不管我想要什么,只要配合天时地利人和就可以得到。今天,我彻底彻底地错了。

半夜场没什么。

我拖到了晚上你心情比较好的时候开口,用了华丽的字眼,凭着大家见识过的不烂之舌,你对我微笑着,暗喻赞同。

不久,我走错了棋,拨了电话给慧文邀她,你听见了,大发雷霆。一声声责备我都什么时候了,还想着去玩。隐约听见几个失望字眼。

不说了,我逃离现场。心里很想去,任性地认为我应该去。

就如所料,你进来温和的说了几句,说什么从今以后不开电视直到我考完。荒谬!我对着电脑荧幕点头。你走了。

你又来了,问我:“Thewthew, are you angry with mummy?”

“NO.” 没望你一眼。

“I know you are. Okay, I know you'll be upset if you are not going. You can go." 轻轻带过你转身就走。

就在我以为争取不到的时候你让我去了?却把我推向自责的窘境。你终究把决定权交回给我,交回于我的良心。

我任性、幼稚、无知的良心。

我突然想到,如果我半夜去了,家里醒着的绝不是我一人,月光照不见的地方人未必看不见。

突然很热血,不想再看你流泪,不想再让你失望。好吧,你的梦,就我来圆吧。



妈,对不起,我爱你。





Friday, 28 October 2011

Who Are You?

Okay, most of you probably under exam pressure now ('most of you' means I am not included, as I am in holiday mood!XD), after a whole tough week of studying, take a break and release your stress!

Here is a joke I heard from Hui Wen yesterday :

A few days ago, Prime Minister Mori was given some basic English conversation training before he visits Washington and meets President Barack Obama.

The instructor told Mori Prime Minister : "when you shake hand with President Obama, please say, 'How are you?' Then Mr. Obama should say, 'I am fine, and you?' Now, you should say, 'Me too.'Afterwards we, the translators, will do the work for you, you need not to worry."

When Mori met Obama, he mistakenly said, "Who are you?"

Mr. Obama was a bit shocked but still managed to react with humour, "Well, I'm Michelle's husband, ha-ha..."

Then Mori replied, "Me too, ha-ha..."

There was a long silence in the meeting room.

XD LAUGH OUT ALL THE STRESS!

Oh ya! I received 2 text messages reminding me to sit tight and study since my last post! So touched!

THANK YOU Rebecca and Neoh!


Sunday, 23 October 2011

21 Days to Go

21 days to go, another paper war begins!

Wow, I was literally shocked when my church member told me this morning!

21

A facinating number that amazes me all the time. First came in my big head was Green Day - 21 guns. Eh, now everyone is talking about GREEN right, even a band chose Green as their name too. What a trend. haha. Maybe we can form one Green Night, Green Sunday, Green Friday or Green Year would be the best.

"... one, tweenty-one guns, throw up your arms, into the sky..."

Nice song.XD It paints my colourful day to all green.

Yesterday we went to the library again, and had a farewell for Tree and Jun. We spent 3 hours for lunch. You might say there is no big deal, but we had lunch at PIZZA HUT!So much to talk, so much to read. I told myself I must focus on the notes I brought, and guess what I really focus on the same page for 3 hours.XD

What happened later was not so nice. Most of you know what happened. I will not elaborate much on this sad matter. Hui Wen's had an accident early in the morning, and she called yesterday as Doomed Day.haha.

Well, we went to Sunway in 2 separate cars, I sat on the front seat of Jun's CR-V during the return journey. When we were going down the spiral-way of the car park, I looked back to J and saw her looked quite serious. She developed a fixation on the way in front. So, I joked with her saying why she was so serious. That was the beginning. Now I forward the story time line to the last episode. Jun got distracted and scratched her dad's car with the concrete wall, quite serious. The left back part of the car had white stripes. Argh!

Okay, I have some responsibility to bear and I am not going to run away from it. I heard many comments on this matter, QQ and J those who were in the car reckoned it's part of my fault while others say I was not guilty. No matter what, I think I was wrong. J scolded me,yea she should.

On top of that, I felt so troubled to let Jun bore it all at home. She was in tears and her parents scolded her badly, but she told her mum that time there were only she and J in the car. I was speechless. WHY.

WHY.

To prevent me from getting the blame.

Nothing to so much... No need to say much... Sorry and thank you Jun.

21

Back to the topic. 21 to me another meaning is maturity. 21st birthday will be a big day for me, it's a rite of passage, meaning I have to be a real man and not a childish boy like now. J was right yesterday, I should behave more like a man. She taught me how to have a meal neatly at Pizza Hut. We made a promise then.=) Thank you J.

21 days to go for SPM. What is the implication?

START MY HARDCORE STUDIES NOW!!

I yelled this slogan for don't know how many times dy, someone please help me!

Okay~this post is getting rather long. I should stop now. Can you all do a favour for me? You all have my cell phone number right, please constantly text me : "Matthew don't waste time anymore! Sit tight and study!" XD Don't worry, the time you text me most probably I am idling.

ALL THE BEST! YEAH! HAPPY 21!




“你怎样笑都很好看!”

哇~~爽    !   到   !QQ,你也很帅啦!


我会继续这样笑。



Monday, 17 October 2011

MNJ

After a week I wrote the letter to LSJ, who is more keen to be known as J, I assumed the letter has reached her doorstep and she has read it.=)

Well, no reply from her yet. Maybe she needs months to go through it.

Wait a moment, I FORGOT TO PASTE A 50 CENTS STAMP!!hahahaha. Too bad.

I got many complaints that the letter was too lengthy, so do my other posts. Knowing that most of you carry out a hyper hectic life, you have no time to read it through word by word, I'm trying to make it short. Just TRY only.

MNJ

You've read the other two of the group posting about MNJ. Ya, I am hopping on the bandwagon too.

Perharps there are readers who are scratching their heads thinking what on earth is MNJ?Well, M for Matty, N for Neri and J for Jing.

Er...it is a new formed group, a gang, a band, a party, a company, a compound or whatever you may call it. We're quite flexible you see. I can see that many of you are frowning, dissaproving? oh don't worry we don't organize campaigns like "Occupy Wall Street","Occupy New York","Occupy Penang Bridge" or "Occupy Chung Ling". Occupying Chung Ling is a good idea though.

We are just a group of teenagers, to be precise, three teenagers who ... er ... chemically reacted and form a compound through friendship bond ( which is the combination of covalent and ionic bonds).

You may want to know more about how it happens, erm I need to check up with N and J first but I know it involves complicated formulae and theories which you may not understand even I tell you. So better don't tell.=)

Somebody asked how about the 3 Musketeerz??

Oh~I am glad there are people who still remember this.haha. The 3 Musketeerz is still there, no worries okay. But the 3 Musketeerz have not been holding a conference together for almost a year. Don't forget KL is a face-paced society. Just like Malaysia can join ASEAN, PBB and so on, we form groups to create a better world. Yeah.

Okay, someone starts to grumble. I am going straight to the point now.

M

Not much to say about myself, you all know me right. However many say that they know me more after reading the letter I sent to J. Hey, it is supposed to be her letter, private and confidential, why you all read it?

N

Neri, aka Neri Tan not tanned.AHAHAHA. Her skin is so fair!!

Sorry, I am going to spend quite a big page here since I dedicated such a long letter for J.=) If not Neri will feel she is inferior to J and become emotionally unstable, which will acitivate a series of nuclear chain reaction, in turn blow up the whole earth.XD Ops, she will definitely seek my live once she arrived at Penang International Airport this December from Australia.

I never think that we will be best friends when I first know you in 3A2. My impression towards you was "wow your English is freaking good." I couldn't see any interception point between our distinct lives. We were so different. In fact the entire year in Form3 we didn't talk much but who knows we are now so close? Thinking back, our friendship develops through blogs and facebook right?I remember last year each time I visited my blog, the counter showed number 3, I knew it one was you, another was Jing and one was me of course.Haha. How pityful . You started to comment on my cbox, clearing all the bushes that grew so tall after Jeffrey and Yan Yi abandoned the place. So, you are actually my web friend (网友)! I was so touched that someone cared for me during that period, you know what I was going through. When the people surrounding me were backstabbing me, you, from so far away actually cared for me.=) Now I know why. Maybe it's because you were facing difficulties too living and studying alone there at such a young age, so you can easily understood my feelings.

Okay, enough of "imbas kembali".

Now we are so close, even time and space can't limit the three of us. I love to talk to you two NJ, like you said I can just express myself freely without worrying my image too.Haha. Your voice is so different and unique, it carries some kind of tone which the people here do not have.Argh, I don't know how to describe. I may hurt you sometimes ( erm, actually quite often) but I know you won't care but deep in your heart there left a scar. For example, when you came back last time, I went to watch Transformers 3 but not meeting you for lunch. That was one of the worst things I have ever done. Sorry.But I know you will just take it as childish-guy-is-like-that right?XD

I think the place and the environment you are in now shape and mould you to be so mature, seriously. You're like the Big Sister, shielding MJ. Even when we're discussing our problems, you are like the Master of Ceremony, guiding us through the agendas.

Ya, MN don't share the long history like MJ, but does that matter? Absolutely not.!Deep in my heart I know NJ will not betray me, NJ will never put a sword on my neck or point at me with a gun. That day when we were chatting via Skype, I was so grateful towards you, your advices and your support. Especially on that matter (you-know-what), I can feel that you really support me. I was not expecting that much from you on that particular matter.

Now, I know what you are going through there miles away from us miles away from your home, but remember this : be bold and trust in the Lord. Although MJ keep on stressing that N is like a big sister for MJ, feel free to talk to us about your problems. M will surely be able to find an amazing way to solve it.XD

You are really, really, really good.

I know you're very disappointed with me sometimes, please forgive me, I will try my best not to let you down again ( I wonder how many times I told you this...haha). I know you have high expectations on me, just like my mum, and I promise I WILL LIVE UP TO IT!

I am waiting for your next return to Penang this December, anticipating!XD

J
Please refer to the post below. Your cooperation is appreciated.




I promised you I will not online for a week.=)


Sunday, 9 October 2011

TO LSJ

Dear GLSJ:

LSJ. You sure know who am I referring to.

LSJ, is an acronym of your name, is a short form, is a symbol of you when I was small. Just please don't ask me why. Maybe it's because last time in primary school we needed to refer to somebody secretly (again, kindly don't ask me why.Lame people have lame reasons.), idiots also know using the person's acronym will be the best way.

Yeah, we know each other since kindergarten!I frantically searched through my mum's kindergarten album when I heard you were at my mum's school some years back , and found one.Though I don't know where is it now.Ha.What an old old friend!But the time we actually met and truly know each other 'consciously' was in the year 2002 I think. We were in the same class and you were sitting beside me for 2 years in a row and the third year I prayed 'oh God not she again' and God heard it and I regretted it deeply(again, lame people have lame reasons.Don't ask questions.). What happened through the years we grew up, we both know best in our hearts. Some crazy childish thoughts, some feelings and some remorse. You were cute and cheerful.

Ah, I am surprised you still remember that!!Exactly the time!Right after I shifted to Kulai, Johor I got my first and only handphone number until now, eager to keep in touch with you, but we ended up quarrelling. It was the first time I was being rude to you and I hope it would be the last.=) That time you were annoyed by the guys gossiping about you and me. I understand.

How we reconciled? I forgot the time. Haha. Yea, pretending nothing happened is always the key to save a relationship.XD However, obviously we went through different paths. You had your own problems and I had mine. Almost the same time line I think, we fell for other persons. And the outcomes were different too.

You are still a cheerful girl in my eyes, no matter what you say, like what we didn't see the real you or something like that. Nothing is gonna to destroy you or take away all your happiness and joy. Not even a guy.All you need to do is LET GO. You might think that I didn't go through what you do, but I assure you I fully understand the feeling. I am not saying this out of comforting and sympathy, I meant it. STAY FOOLISH, forget all the sadness and frustration. It's very easy, just you must be willing to take the first step to shut the window to that. I had gone through bad times and difficulties during these five years which you can't imagine. You see, shifting to Johor then Perth then Petaling Jaya then back to here. All the places, I needed to start all over again, making new friends, be strong against jeers and laughs. Even though I was back to my hometown, it was not that familiar to me anymore. There were helpless times for our family, alone out there miles away from the rest, we overcame it together at last. Something bad happened which we concealed even to our own relatives, buried deep in our hearts and minds. Of course I am not going to say it here, the time has not come yet.

However now I look back all the years (wow,feel that I am speaking like Steve Jobs lol), the events happened somehow shape and mould me into what I am now. And I am still on the change, to be a better person. Every single event, little by little they built up my character and my thoughts. As you know I changed school for 3 times in 3 years, I developed good adaptation skills to the environment, and to the people around. That's why some people said I am highly sociable. They said this in a sarcastic way but it's ok for me. =) Adversity creates strong people, how true it is. Now I am immuned against the jeers!Hahaha.

Well, yea I have changed. But one thing I can't change is I am kind hearted. I always have the impulse to solve and help out others problems. I regard this as genetic heredity now. Cool.I inherited this characteristic from my dad, who can give a lift to a worker in a shop by the roadside. My dad knows him because he sees him everytime when he was shopping in the mini market. To be precise my dad don't know him at all. -.-" When I came to this school, I was cheated and felt strongly someone was taking advantage of my hospitality and kindness. I told you before. I tried to be adamant and turn my back to them but without realizing I was giving them a hand again. Later on I learnt that as Christians we must not only love our love ones ( since everyone in the world can do that, of course.) but also our enemies (which I don't think everyone in the world will).And we are the light and salt of the world, should be a blessing for others.

I helped you LSJ out of my protective instinct. As your best friend I know I must not refrain from you and let you alone bear it all the devastating problems. Do not feel guilty or embarrassed, I consider this as an insult as WE ARE BEST FRIENDS. XP

What are Best Friends??

BEST FRIENDS ARE THOSE WHO WALK WITH YOU ALONG THE ROAD.

BEST FRIENDS ARE THE ONES YOU CAN TURN AND CRY FOR.

BEST FRIENDS ARE ALWAYS THERE EVEN THOUGH YOU FORGET ABOUT THEM WHEN YOU HAVE A CRUSH.

BEST FRIENDS WILL NEVER EVER QUIT FROM YOUR LIFE.

BEST FRIENDS ARE FOR YOUR HARD TIMES.

BEST FRIENDS ARE FEW BUT ARE SUFFICIENT FOR YOU.

Please bear in mind that, no more asking Neri and I to quit.Grrr. Chasing us away like houseflies. You may ask me why, why I become your best friend?

Well, I don't know, but I sense a bond between you and me.

Last time we were , erm, you know, but now we can still being so good to each other, don't you feel amazing?

You can overcome this, Neri and I know for sure. Trust yourself as we trust you.=)

LSJ, let it remains as the symbol.


love,

Matty.

May the good Lord bless you.XD

Perharps you didn't realize, you have helped me a lot too.=)